The Human Drive: Coaching for Career Direction

As a career coach, you know that the journey to a fulfilling career is more than just matching skills to job descriptions. It’s about tapping into the deeper “whys” that drive a person forward. To help our clients succeed at challenging goals, we must first help them develop and envision a desired future. Identifying what we want to grow into is a vital first step to igniting the drive to get there, and it serves as a powerful reminder of why the hard work is worth it when the path gets tough.

This post will explore the unique human factors to consider when guiding clients through decisions about their career direction. We will cover how to help them envision their future, tap into their internal motivators, and understand the interplay between personal and professional identity. By the end, you will have a clearer framework for supporting your clients as they navigate these critical life choices.

Co-Creating a Vision for the Future

The first step in coaching for career direction is helping clients build a vivid picture of their desired future. This isn’t just about a job title; it’s about the life they want to lead.

Start by asking them to imagine their life ten years from now. Prompt them to consider the professional they want to become. Then, explore the different facets of that reality to co-create a shared vision.

You can use powerful questions to guide this exploration:

  • How would your life be different if you were to achieve this goal?
  • How would you be different?
  • Why is it important for you to work toward this now?
  • Imagine you’ve achieved your goal. What advice would your future self give your current self?

This line of questioning encourages internalization through self-persuasion. Your clients are effectively talking themselves into a commitment to their goals. Once they know where they want to go and why it matters, you have primed them for the next stage: goal striving.

The Dance of Motivation and Discipline

Motivation is one of our most powerful internal resources. It gives us fuel for the road. Tapping into our intrinsic motivators naturally activates us and gets us started on the challenging journey of goal attainment.

However, motivation can be fleeting, much like an emotion. It comes and goes, and we can’t always rely on it to be present. This is where self-discipline and habits come into play. Developing the ability to self-manage goal-oriented behaviors—to do what needs to be done even when we don’t feel like it—is how we make progress toward our desired outcomes.

Think of motivation and self-discipline as tag-team partners.

  • Motivation gets us started.
  • Self-discipline keeps us going when motivation wanes.
  • Motivation urges us to get going again when self-discipline gets tired.

With enough repetition and consistency, these goal-striving behaviors can become habits. They become so ingrained and automatic that they no longer feel effortful. They transform into urges that lead us to continue the desired behavior without even thinking about it. To achieve important, long-term goals, we need to be able to use all three: motivation, self-discipline, and habits.

Understanding Types of Motivation

According to Self-Determination Theory, developed by psychologists Edward Deci and Richard Ryan, there are two primary types of motivation: intrinsic and extrinsic. As coaches, we aim to help clients identify self-concordant goals, which are rooted in autonomous or “want-to” motivators.

Intrinsic motivation comes from within the person. The purest form stems from interest or enjoyment in the task itself.

Extrinsic motivation comes from an outside source. Some forms are internalized (“want-to”), while others are not (“have-to”).

Studies consistently show that intrinsic motivation enhances performance, problem-solving, creativity, and conceptual understanding. Conversely, certain extrinsic motivators can undermine intrinsic drive by thwarting the fundamental human need for autonomy. The goal is to tap into the “want-to” motivators:

  • Intrinsic: The activity is inherently enjoyable.
  • Integrated: The activity is connected to the individual’s core values.
  • Identified: The goal is personally meaningful or important.

Tapping Into Intrinsic Drive

We can use open-ended questions to help clients explore and connect with their intrinsic motivators.

To explore interest and enjoyment:

  • What are you the most interested in?
  • What interests you about pursuing this goal?
  • What types of things do you enjoy doing the most?
  • What brings you joy?

To explore integration with values and identity:

  • Which of your highest values will you get to live through in this role?
  • Which of your natural strengths do you get to use in this work?
  • What will it mean to you to be able to call yourself a [desired role]?

To explore personal importance:

  • Why is this important to you now?
  • Why does it matter that you achieve this?

These questions guide clients toward goals that feel authentic and aligned with who they are, increasing the likelihood of long-term success and satisfaction.

The Importance of Person-Job Fit

Person-job fit refers to the alignment between a job’s characteristics and an employee’s personal needs and abilities (Tims, Derks, & Bakker, 2016). This includes two types of fit:

  1. Demands-Abilities Fit: Compatibility between an employee’s knowledge, skills, and abilities and the job’s demands.
  2. Needs-Supplies Fit: The extent to which a job fulfills an employee’s needs and preferences.

Research shows that a good person-job fit enhances job satisfaction, performance, and engagement while reducing stress, burnout, and turnover intentions (Bayona, Caballer, & Peiró, 2020; Chhabra, 2015; Laschinger & Grau, 2012).

Importantly, job fit is dynamic. It must be proactively managed over time to be maintained (Kim, Schuh, & Cai, 2020). As we learn and grow, we can outgrow a role, even one that was once a perfect fit. When that happens, it can contribute to a decline in our well-being at work.

Guiding Professional Identity Formation

A career is often intertwined with our identity. Professional Identity Formation (PIF) is the transformational process of internalizing a profession’s core knowledge, skills, and values, leading an individual to “think, act, and feel” like a member of that community (American Association of Colleges of Pharmacy, n.d.).

This process is an iterative cycle of construction and deconstruction. As Shiva Sarraf-Yazdi and colleagues (2021) note, students “refine, reject or internalize new values, practices and behaviours while reexamining pre-existing ones.” We enter a profession with our existing personal identity, and through socialization and experience, we integrate professional norms to develop a new, evolving professional identity. This process continues throughout a career, leading to professional maturation.

Finding Mattering, Purpose, and a Calling

Ultimately, our work can provide a profound sense of mattering, purpose, or a calling.

  • Mattering is the feeling of being significant and valued by others (Flett, 2022). It contributes to resilience and adaptability.
  • Purpose is the reason for which something exists; it’s our guiding light and sense of direction. A strong sense of purpose is a protective factor against numerous health risks, including dementia, cardiovascular disease, and depression (Barcaccia et al., 2023; Kim, Delaney, & Kubzansky, 2019; Sutin et al., 2023).
  • A calling is a strong urge toward a particular way of life or career. It’s linked to higher career satisfaction and lower rates of burnout (Hager, Tutty, & Kao, 2017; Yoon et al., 2017). However, there are risks. For those who see their work as a calling, experiencing burnout can lead to more severe negative effects, like higher PTSD symptoms (Jo et al., 2018).

As coaches, we can help facilitate a sense of calling by helping clients clarify their vocational identity, find meaning in their work, and build career commitment.

Your Role as a Coach

Your role as a career coach is to create a space for exploration and self-discovery. By guiding clients to envision their future, connect with their intrinsic motivators, and understand the dynamics of identity and job fit, you empower them to make career choices that are not just strategic, but also deeply fulfilling. You help them find not just a job, but a path that aligns with their authentic self and provides a lasting sense of purpose.